RelationSHEEP!

"This boyfriend n girlfriend things ni,perlu ke?? I mean, lame sangat ke kalau one 2 takde boyfriend/girlfriend ni?? hihi. Saja nak menanya."

This is a very interesting question that my friend posted on my Formsprings wall…being in a relationship??? Is it important for us today?? Or it is just a trend, lifestyle, media influences n etc… n if we r not in a relationship does it makes us looked lame??? To me it is a basic n natural thing…all human being have needs n wants, for example we need food, water n shelter to survive (needs) while we need car n handphone (wants) to live our life…for me relationship can fall either on these path, it can be our need and I also can be our want… it is actually depends on the person itself...history had shown that human being need to have companionship in their life, juz looked at Adam n Eve…it is actually not about whether it is lame or not becoz we as a human being needs to feel tht we have someone to hold on and to rely…maybe for some they didn’t need to be in a relationship becoz they can manage on their own n live their life to the fullest but for some relationship is needed especially when they are ready to shared n open up their life to someone special *or they thought it would be :)*

I’ve also had heard that being in relationship is a fussy n complicated thing…yeaaahhh it is true becoz by being in a relationship u r tryin to live ur life with someone new…u have to learned to adapt, accept, trust n communicate…life is all about challenges n being in a relationship is one of them…

Lots of people are also saying that they had given up on relationship just becoz they failed n got hurt by the previous bf/gf…lemme give u guys an advice…the more failure u are, the better u cn be…by having a failed relationship, u can learned, experience n know what are ur previous mistakes….thus heartbreak will only makes you wiser ;)

All I can say is don’t ever gave up n walked away from love…u gotta risk love, it doesn’t mean tht you’re never gonna get hurt, u will but I can assured u that any pain that u feel…will never, EVEEEERRRRR compare to the regret that comes from walking away from love…Happy reading folks...Cheerio!