Real LOVE versus Great LOVE

 

  

VERSUS

The reason I’m doing this topic becoz one of my closest friend asked me to do it…I would like to point out that I don’t have a Master degree in love affairs or even Phd in love management :) everything that I wrote in here is basically base on my own life experience and my own understanding…sooo u can agree or disagree with any of my statement and feel free to ask anything…if u are shy….just pm me at my FB account: http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1113017226

Real love:

Real love…what does it mean??? Does it exist?? How can we tell whether the love that we felt with someone is real or not??? How can we measure it??? There is soooo many questions on this thing called real love…well to me real love is when you love someone not just when they are at their best but most important when they are at their worst! It's easy to love someone when everything is fine, but the true test of love is when they're at the lowest point in their life and to me real love is unconditional…example: will you be there if your partner needed you the most?? Will you stay on his/her bedside waiting for those lovely eyes to open up again??? Will you hold your partner hands when he/she craving for comfort??? I guess the real question here is Would you, Could you or Should you???

Great love:

Okay how about great love??? How is it differs from real love??? Well in one point I have to say tht great love is conditional….i think great love happened when you changed yourselves in order to make ur partner happy or please, for instance when u are with you friend or just being yourselves, u tends to be a crazy and unpredictable person or in a Malay word “gila-gila” but when u are with your partner, he/she doesn’t like it...sooo u change yourselves to be a well-mannered and predictable person to please him/her…it will be GREAT becoz u are trying to make him/her happy n feel comfortable being with u but it will not be REAL…I’m not saying that u guys won’t be in love, u do! It is just NOT u…this changing of a person may be seems like a sacrifice but it is not! Sacrifices are needed in a relationship but not by changing yourselves into another person. When u do this, it is like u are forcing somebody to love u…it will be GREAT becoz in ur partner eyes u are perfect for him/her but in reality is u are trying to be somebody that u are not. Only times will reveal the real u and at that time can he/she accept u the way u are??? Try to think over it…Happy reading folks…Cheerio!

                         

 

aMAZED

Last night i found out about a guy who willingly to pay half of his salary to the person that can find him a girlfriend!!!! WHAT a girlfriend! I wondered how much he will pay to the person who find him a wife.....hahahaha :) He even gave 38 reason why single women should date him....I'm sooooo amazed the things that one could do just to be in a relationSHEEP...Happy reading folks. Cheerio!


Here's the link about the guy :http://www.handsomepaul.blogspot.com/

RelationSHEEP!

"This boyfriend n girlfriend things ni,perlu ke?? I mean, lame sangat ke kalau one 2 takde boyfriend/girlfriend ni?? hihi. Saja nak menanya."

This is a very interesting question that my friend posted on my Formsprings wall…being in a relationship??? Is it important for us today?? Or it is just a trend, lifestyle, media influences n etc… n if we r not in a relationship does it makes us looked lame??? To me it is a basic n natural thing…all human being have needs n wants, for example we need food, water n shelter to survive (needs) while we need car n handphone (wants) to live our life…for me relationship can fall either on these path, it can be our need and I also can be our want… it is actually depends on the person itself...history had shown that human being need to have companionship in their life, juz looked at Adam n Eve…it is actually not about whether it is lame or not becoz we as a human being needs to feel tht we have someone to hold on and to rely…maybe for some they didn’t need to be in a relationship becoz they can manage on their own n live their life to the fullest but for some relationship is needed especially when they are ready to shared n open up their life to someone special *or they thought it would be :)*

I’ve also had heard that being in relationship is a fussy n complicated thing…yeaaahhh it is true becoz by being in a relationship u r tryin to live ur life with someone new…u have to learned to adapt, accept, trust n communicate…life is all about challenges n being in a relationship is one of them…

Lots of people are also saying that they had given up on relationship just becoz they failed n got hurt by the previous bf/gf…lemme give u guys an advice…the more failure u are, the better u cn be…by having a failed relationship, u can learned, experience n know what are ur previous mistakes….thus heartbreak will only makes you wiser ;)

All I can say is don’t ever gave up n walked away from love…u gotta risk love, it doesn’t mean tht you’re never gonna get hurt, u will but I can assured u that any pain that u feel…will never, EVEEEERRRRR compare to the regret that comes from walking away from love…Happy reading folks...Cheerio!

L.O.V.E question mark

Lust.Obliged.Vein.Experimental

Love…what is love??? “Love is an emotion of strong affection and personal attachment. In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection” according to Wikipedia. 

We can divided the world into two, people that believe in love n people that don’t…to the people that believe in them feel  “love is there if u wanted it to be…you just have to see that it is wrapped in beauty and hidden away between the second of your life…if u don’t stop for a minute, You might missed it” while others can think love as this “it’s magical comfort food for the weak and the uneducated…It makes you feel all warm and relevant but in the end, love leaves you weak, aggravated and dependent”. For me I like to believe in love…yeeeaappp love is all around us whether we realize it or not, don’t ever search for sooo called TRUE LOVE bcoz one fine day it will come on its own..You just have to stay put, calm yourself, take a deep breath and think for awhile.

Anyhow in my humble opinion there’s no such thing as a SOULMATE, don’t get me wrong soulmates do exist but u will never found them in your life and if u really ever found them, it may not be the right timing…example: u will found your soulmate but at that time he/she already married, engaged, pregnant, have a bf/gf, u r married/engaged, and even dead! Actually at first I didn’t believe at this statement but now after some years I do kinda agreed with it. Happy reading folks…Cheerio!

Introduction a.k.a testing

This is my first attempt to write something about my life and the people around me after several of my friends encourage me to write on it...To me the best way to handle sadness, grieve and broken heart is to turn them into literature :)  Sooo here it is.....